Yoga at a volcano retreat; beaches in India, the glitz of Miami: Debbie Cooper was on the trip of a lifetime with her new husband Jamie Starbuck and her sporadic emails to her family in the UK recounted their adventures.
Everything had definitely been a whirlwind. Three months after meeting in July 2009 through a MeetUp group in Nottingham, they had moved in together and, ten months later, they were married in a small registry office.
A few weeks later, more good news arrived: Jamie, a cleaner who dreamed of becoming a photographer, had won a competition to take photos across Europe; he and Debbie, a free spirit and avid traveler, embarked on a never-ending global adventure, beginning in Amsterdam.
Over the next two years, her sisters and friends back in Britain received email updates about their travels.
“We are in Nicaragua in a sustainable ecovillage living the hippie life,” one message read, according to The Telegraph newspaper. Debbie missing podcast. “Dirt houses, solar energy and growing vegetables. Every day we go into the garden and pick a salad for dinner. I got up at 5:15 p.m. to meditate today, but it is a very quiet meditation and involves strange breathing, which I don’t like. Photos will follow.”
It could be months between her emails, but Debbie still reassured her family, according to Debbie missing“I feel good. This journey we’re on, by which I mean life-long, is very cathartic for both of us. I’m sorry for worrying you with my silences. Checking emails and other things just doesn’t seem to be a priority.”
“We literally only plan a few days in advance.”
His sisters asked him to send them photos; they never had one. Suggestions for phone calls were ignored.
Jamie, on the other hand, worked on a travel blog called Diary of a Misanthrope and many of his accounts were not exactly complimentary. “Greece is shit,” he posted. The food in Colombia “is pretty shit.” In India, he detailed food poisoning.
Diary of a Misanthrope would cover his experiences in 32 countries, including Spain, Italy, Germany, France, Poland, Netherlands, Switzerland, Greece, Turkey, India, Indonesia, South Africa, Botswana, Zimbabwe, Thailand, Laos, Vietnam, Cambodia, Singapore, Abu Dhabi, Nicaragua, Panama, Costa Rica, Ecuador, Colombia, Guatemala, Honduras, Belize, Mexico, America, Canada and finally Peru.
However, in Nottingham, Debbie’s friends had started to notice strange things.
Matthew, who knew Debbie through Meetup, followed Jamie on social media but, as he said Debbie missingJamie “didn’t talk about her, he didn’t include her in his plans. He would have pictures of himself with other people and there was no Debbie.”
Debbie’s sisters, Beth and Nicole, had also noticed discrepancies, like this: While Debbie’s emails indicated she was in Asia, Jamie was tweeting from the United States. They wondered if the new marriage had already broken down.
“I was convinced,” Beth said Debbie missing. “I just said they broke up and she’s hiding somewhere…he just doesn’t want to tell us because she’s really embarrassed.”
Another Meetup friend, Andy, had also noticed that Jamie had stopped using “we” in his blog posts, which read like those of a solo traveler.
Nicole said Debbie missing: “There was no mention of his name. And it was like there was someone living a completely different life than the one we thought we were living.”
Photo requests and phone calls
About “seven or eight months” into Debbie and Jamie’s trip, Matthew became suspicious of Debbie’s absence in Jamie’s messages and, after having a strange premonition in the shower, realized he needed to “sound the alarm.”
He teams up with Andy and another friend and they begin to share the different clues and strange, jarring details they’ve spotted. They remembered that Jamie had briefly mentioned once that he had a first wife named Helen, who was disabled, so they tracked her down and were shocked by what she told them. If they were worried about Debbie, they asked Helen. “Very worried,” they were told.
Helen told Debbie’s friends that Jamie had “hacked my accounts, my emails, changed my benefits address to his. You name it, he tried it.” One of Helen’s caregivers, according to Debbie missinghad discovered in the history of a computer that Jamie had searched: “I want to kill my wife”.
On March 1, 2012, Debbie’s friends reported her missing.
After the police contacted her sister Beth, she in turn emailed Debbie asking a question about their childhood that only Debbie could know the answer to. She never heard from “her sister” again.
Police emailed Jamie and Debbie, who both assured detectives they were fine, but had separated.
However, police discovered that Debbie’s passport had not left the UK and had in fact expired. Financial investigators provided other clues: Debbie had inherited $283,000, but after marrying Jamie, it was transferred to a joint account; Debbie’s account was inactive.
Police now feared that Jamie was the author of “Debbie’s” messages and provided hundreds of their texts to forensic linguists.
Soon their investigations escalated into a murder investigation without a body.
By monitoring Jamie’s bank account, police knew when he would land in the UK and when he landed at Heathrow in January 2013, they were at the airport to arrest him.
In his last blog post, sent two days before his return, he posted: “I’m literally leaving paradise to face my destiny in England. I left the UK a long time ago in search of… well, in all honesty, I was running away. From life and responsibilities; from justice and my past.”
When police searched his laptop, they found a “confession” in an unsent email in which he wrote: “I planned for it to be quick… I didn’t expect you to be so resilient.”
Eventually, Jamie confessed. Just eight days after marrying Debbie, he had murdered her, dismembered and burned her body. Days after this heinous crime, he left the country, spending $123,000 of his own money to travel the world.
Judge Michael Stokes QC sentenced him to 30 years in prison and said that of more than “75 homicides, I struggle to think of one as horrific as this… This case shows that the categories of wickedness are never closed… Even in death you have stripped her of all dignity. It is difficult to imagine a more grotesque and inhumane act.”
Sister Beth, speaking on behalf of the family, said at the time that the pain was “almost impossible to bear”.
“For almost three years we believed we were communicating with her, living with the illusion that she was alive and happy and traveling the world with Jamie.
“We are haunted and tormented by the suffering she had to endure during the violent act that caused her death. »
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