Inside Matthew Perry’s ‘Struggle’ Ahead of 2021 ‘Friends’ Reunion

Matthew Perry’s family and friends say the late actor was “struggling” before his final TV appearance on the 2021 “Friends” reunion special.

“It’s hard to watch, because he’s just not himself,” his friend Kevin Pollak says in the Netflix documentary “The One About Matthew Perry,” adding that Perry hasn’t been on camera in a while.

Pollak notes that at the time of the HBO Max reunion special, Perry was “struggling with sobriety” and feeling “a lot of pressure.”

Matthew Perry (pictured with Jennifer Aniston during the 2021 ‘Friends’ reunion special) was “struggling” during this time, his friends reveal in a new documentary. HBO MAX
The 2021 “Friends” reunion special (pictured with Perry, Matt LeBlanc, David Schwimmer, Courteney Cox, Aniston and Lisa Kudrow) was Perry’s final television appearance before her death. HBO MAX

In the documentary, Perry’s sister, Mia Perry Bowick, further explains, “Because his health was so poor, he hadn’t really been out in public since 2018.”

When Perry decided to participate in the 2021 reunion — which reunited him on screen with his former co-stars Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Lisa Kudrow, Matt LeBlanc and David Schwimmer — his sister says he was “very nervous about coming back.”

“(He) wanted to say, ‘I’m here. I’m OK, everything’s OK,'” Bowick said. But that “was only half true” at the time the special was filmed, she said.

Perry (pictured with the cast of “Friends” in 1994) hadn’t been out in public for some time at the time of the 2021 “Friends” reunion. ©Warner Bros/Courtesy Everett Collection
The actor, seen with the cast of “Friends” during the 2021 reunion, was “nervous” and wanted to show everyone he was “good,” says his sister. Terence Patrick/HBO MAX

After the special, viewers expressed concern about Perry’s health on social media.

In the Netflix documentary, Bowick explains that his brother’s “energy and life force” were “diminished” after his near-death experience in 2018, when his colon burst due to overuse of opioids.

The actor detailed the terrifying ordeal, during which he spent two weeks in a coma, five months in the hospital and had to use a colostomy bag for nine months to treat the health crisis, in his 2022 memoir “Friends, Lovers and The Big Terrible Thing.”

Perry (pictured at the ‘Friends’ reunion) had “lowered” his energy after nearly dying in 2018, his sister said. HBO MAX
The “Friends” star nearly died in 2018 after her colon ruptured. (Pictured in the reunion special with Schwimmer.) Terence Patrick/HBO MAX

Doctors told Bowick that Perry’s colon had ruptured in several places, causing “intense sepsis” throughout her body, she recalled in the Netflix doc.

The “Friends” star underwent several surgeries to repair his colon and, “at one point the decision was made to put him on an ECMO machine, which is basically like an iron lung,” his sister adds.

“His fingertips were turning black. It was possible he could lose his fingers,” she said.

Perry (pictured with his sister Mia) was in a coma due to an “iron lung” and his fingertips were turning “black”, his sister said. Netflix/YouTube
Bowick (pictured in “The One About Matthew Perry”) said it was a “slap in the face” to learn that opioid use was to blame for the health crisis. Netflix/YouTube

Bowick says it was like a “slap in the face” to learn the cause of Perry’s health scare, explaining that “opioids can significantly slow down your digestive tract.”

She adds, “There is so much grief that family members and friends face when their loved ones struggle with addiction. »

At the time, she was “mad at him” and thought, “You did this to yourself, man… It was really, really, really hard.” »

Perry hadn’t been on camera since he nearly died in 2018. (Photo with the cast of “Friends” in 1994.) ©Warner Bros/Courtesy Everett Collection
He remained in the hospital for three months in 2018. (Perry seen above during the “Friends” reunion.) HBO MAX

Perry’s months-long hospital stay was the first time Bowick saw him and thought he wouldn’t wake up.

When “The Whole Nine Yards” actor came home from the hospital, “he was still in really, really bad shape,” Bowick recalled.

“He had a completely open wound in his intestine that wasn’t completely healed. He had a colostomy bag. He aged 20 years in three months. He could barely walk.”

Kevin Pollak (pictured with Perry in 2010) says Perry was “struggling” at the time of the 2021 HBO Max special. Getty Images
Perry (pictured with the “Friends” cast at the reunion) could “barely walk” when he left the hospital in 2018, his sister says. Terence Patrick/HBO MAX

The “Friends” reunion was his first major public appearance after this ordeal.

“At the reunion, I think Matthew…knew he couldn’t get to where everyone wanted him to be…I think he was really aware of that,” Jeff Strauss, former “Friends” writer and producer, says in the doc.

After filming, Perry felt “relieved” and “tired,” according to Bowick.

Perry (pictured in an undated photo from “The One About Matthew Perry)” was “aware” that he couldn’t “get to the place where everyone wants him to be,” says a former “Friends” writer. Courtesy of Netflix
Perry, seen above when he was younger, felt “relived” and “tired” after filming the reunion. Courtesy of Netflix

“He was kind of wondering, ‘How am I going to continue?’ I know he was really scared, I know he was really fighting for his life,” his sister said.

Part of him “didn’t think it was possible to live a sober life,” she adds.

Although she refused to give up “hope,” Bowick began to view her addiction “as a terminal illness.”

Perry (pictured) “was fighting for his life” and “didn’t think it was possible to have a sober life”. matthewperry4/Instagram
Perry’s sister said she considers her addiction a “terminal” illness, her sister said in a new Netflix doc (pictured). Netflix

Perry died in his hot tub at his California home at age 54 on October 28, 2023.

According to the autopsy report, he died from the “acute effects of ketamine” and drowning.

“Matthew Perry’s” is now streaming on Netflix.

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